Lately I’ve been thinking of ways to put myself first and embark in things that are fulfilling to me. Not asking permission, not worrying and just doing by truly questioning what or where I want to spend my time doing and what makes me happy! The thought of being bold came along in fashion and everything I decide to welcome or involve myself with. Be brave and embrace your talents, your creativity and any gift you may posses. Be unapologetic and follow your own path not anyone’s expectations. It’s quite freeing! Choosing who you surround yourself with is key – select people that support your journey and remind you of your greatness and value in their lives and that of others. While also being that aid for them as well.

I happen to 1) enjoy fashion and dressing up 2) it is creatively fulfilling 3) most importantly – it makes me happy 4) it is when I feel my best self. My day can go from 0 to 10 if I manage to pick a chic outfit that matches the season, weather and most importantly my “vibe” that day. Having the freedom of self-expression through clothes and accessories, while boosting your self-esteem and mood is highly powerful. As an added bonus I get compliments for my dress or my outfit and I hope to serve as an inspiration for other people to try the same!

In order to accomplish this fashion statement that reflects my personality it can take some time or when in luck it all clicks in minutes! Recently, my outfit selection revolves around the main piece of clothing whether its a long dress for the summer or wide bottom pleated slacks and jacket – once I pick the main “course” haha I add the statement elements such as shoes, hats, jewelry and some oversized shades (it makes such a difference!) to blend with or pop whatever the intention might be everything has a purpose and tailored intention.

When I travel is when I feel even more brave since I feel free to use bright colors that I would normally shy away from or some shocking pair of shoes that are bound to get noticed! But I also push myself to be true to myself even if the city I live in has a casual feel- I still find ways to make my outfits appropriate for the occasion but always incorporate my love and style to anything I wear!

For the summer, long dresses are my favorite right now, there is something so classic and timeless about them – either for spring, summer or fall it can accentuate your figure, be comfortable, weather appropriate and chic all at the same time. Off-the shoulder A-line dresses are my go-to and cotton or linen fabrics but any one that is form-fitting by the waist and flows towards the bottom is so beautiful as well. A matching pair of slacks or leggings with a simple t-shirt or button-down with a bold jacket also does the trick depending on the occasion. A simple tip is you’ll never know until you try – so in your mind certain pieces may go well together but ensure you try them on and at that point t decide if the outfit matches with your vision or if you need to make some adjustments. Sometimes less is more my mom always says or if you’re going to show at the bottom then cover the top and vice-versa. Such deliberation is much easier if you try your ideas out before walking out the door! This will also make you feel more secure in your choices as you took the proper time and adequate fitting to decide! The possibilities and combinations of colors, patterns, fabrics, accessories and style are endless which makes it a n extraordinary and fun experience! What I’ve learned is that no matter what you wear as long as you feel your best and it reflects your personality and your uniqueness then you’ll shine and standout wherever you are! It is all about attitude and being brave, bold and confident in your look and choice of apparel! Being gracious if you get complements and serving as a light for others!

Besides fashion – mind, body and soul have been a focus of mine so I’ve created an environment of self-improvement by feeling stronger through athletic, zumba and cardio classes; mentally at peace and connected to myself by being more present and calm through yoga and stretch classes and for me the soul has always been cared for through spirituality and religion so I’ve returned to in-person church which has been very soothing and grounding, and I also joined their young adult group. While also taking time for myself through music, singing, dancing, writing and taking time off from work or social media with a quick get-away trip or staycation which are very therapeutic for me! In doing so I’ve met an amazing group of people that are like-minded, kind and supportive – that want you to succeed and continue to thrive so they check-in and make sure I’m going to class or group activity. Everyone I’ve encountered is friendly, supportive of each other and serves as motivation for those days that you really would like to stay home and not to go to workout or meditate. Having such a support system has been extremely helpful and makes a difference in my happiness and personal sense of strength and self-worth. In the end you are in control of who you want to be in the world and who you’d like to share that journey with – whether it’s fashion, friends and your time – choose it wisely since it makes a remarkable impact in your life’s perspective and environment! Be bold and free! 💃

I have historically had a very hard time getting up in the mornings and struggled with leaving the cozy comfort of a warm bed, to wake up and start the day ahead. I undergo very deep sleep cycles and need to get at least 8 hours to be in good spirits, functional and productive. As a teenager, I slept for hours and now as an emerging adult with work and life in general, sleep is something I’ve compromised at times or simply fluctuates depending on the season. I still love sleeping in during the weekends whenever possible, but lately I’ve developed this appreciation of looking forward to the day ahead by getting out of bed earlier and exploring the possibilities! Waking up earlier than normal for me to have more time to enjoy the day, whether it be brunch, cuddling on the sofa and reading a book or watching a captivating show or movie, planning an outing to a lake or nearby hill country, is an interest that has developed over the years. I’ve always had an adventurous drive but only after getting sufficient sleep. Now planning ahead means going to bed early to have such experiences during the weekend, as opposed to sleeping late. I’m excited and appreciate mornings which is something I never in a million years thought I’d say. I’m learning to be more present, aware and grateful of the simple things. Whatever your morning routine is, drinking coffee or tea, meditation or exercise during the week or weekends be proactive in taking time for yourself every morning – besides making your bed please! This habit will start your day on the right mindset before you get caught up in your daily tasks or agenda. Waking up 15 or 30 min. before you go, even though difficult to adjust to at the beginning, will feel more comfortable as it becomes habitual and reinforced by having quality time with how you’re feeling or thoughts you had not addressed. Sleep is very important and I’ll continue to make time for it. I’ll also create an environment where I am capable of getting enough sleep, having those 10 min. for myself and appreciating the morning peace that comes with such habit. If beneficial perhaps consider incorporating something you love in that short time with yourself, so it’s what you look forward to every morning. For me it’s a cup of milk and cereal or plain greek yogurt, fruits and granola during the week and definitely brunch over the weekends. If I can’t manage to take the time in the morning, I make sure to do so at some point during the day. I listen to my daily prayer (prayasyougo site or app) for 5 min. which has been extremely beneficial for me or drink a cup of hot ginger tea, as it gives me a sense of calm and space to be still. Life is ever-changing and fast-paced so take charge and slow it down just a little every morning for self-reflection. You need to focus on yourself before being truly present for others.